From 'Love It!' Divorce Comeback to Bazi: Dayun Transition and Shishang Rebirth

On October 15, 2026, the Japanese show 'Love It!' welcomed a guest making their first appearance after announcing a divorce, instantly setting social media abuzz. A public appearance after divorce is often seen as an act of courage and rebirth.

Observed calmly through the lens of Bazi, major life transitions often coincide with Dayun shifts, and re-engaging in entertainment, creativity, or expression is a natural outflow of Shishang star energy. This article leverages the hot topic to explain how Dayun and Shishang influence life-stage transitions.

Common Misconceptions

Many mistakenly believe Bazi can definitively predict divorce, fortune, or misfortune, but this is not true. Bazi is an analytical tool for personality and energy trends, reflecting a person's aura inclination and choice tendencies during specific periods.

• Misconception 1: Bazi predestines divorce. Divorce is a social act; Bazi only indicates the tension and cycles in emotional relationships. Whether divorce occurs depends on personal choice and circumstances.
• Misconception 2: Dayun is absolutely good or bad. Dayun has no absolute good or bad; it is merely an energy shift. So-called 'bad luck' is often an opportunity to break out of an old shell.
• Misconception 3: Shishang only represents indulgence. Shishang stars govern talent, expression, creativity, and entertainment; when properly channeled, they can become a stepping stone out of a low point.

Dayun Transition: A Life Season Changing Every Decade

In Bazi theory, every person undergoes a Dayun shift every ten years. Dayun is like the climate of life, governing the primary aura and themes of that decade.

When Dayun transitions, especially from one dominant Five Element to another, external events often occur intensively: job changes, relocation, relationship shifts, etc. A public figure divorcing and quickly returning to the spotlight at this time is a classic manifestation of old and new Dayun alternation.

• Dayun transition period: Usually around one's birthday, the energy field is unstable, easily triggering major decisions. It's better not to forcibly resist change; adapting to the flow is more advantageous.
• Divorce and Dayun: If the Officer star or Wealth star in the natal chart is clashed, and a Dayun activates it, emotional relationships are prone to structural change. Divorce is not a failure but the end of a periodic energy cycle.
• Turning point perspective: The end of an old Dayun means the collapse of old patterns; the start of a new Dayun brings a new Ten Gods combination, potentially awakening dormant talents and drive.

Shishang Star: Entertainment Expression and Self-Rebuilding

Shishen (Eating God) and Shangguan (Hurting Officer) are collectively called Shishang, representing output, expression, creativity, and entertainment in Bazi. When public figures participate in shows like cooking battles after a low point, it is a healthy release of Shishang energy.

Shishang can transform stress, channeling inner knots outward through talent, humor, and sharing. Choosing a light-hearted, joyful program for a first post-divorce appearance allows Shishang to serve as a buffer and image-rebuilding tool.

• Shishang 'Spitting Out Elegance': When Shishang is strong in the natal chart or Dayun, a person naturally wants to express, create, and interact. This is a natural remedy for emotional wounds.
• Entertainment as healing: Participating in a cooking battle requires focus, creativity, and instant feedback, quickly shifting attention from the past to the present, aligning with the Shishang generating Wealth path of psychological rebuilding.
• Public image reshaping: Shishang represents affability and audience rapport. By showing a down-to-earth side, the guest gains public re-acceptance—a positive application of Shishang controlling Killing or combining with Officer.
• Balancing excessive Shishang: If the day's Shishang is too strong, one may appear emotional or blunt; using the Resource star (introspection, learning) can stabilize, preventing overexposure of vulnerability.

Personality and Choice in Life Transitions: Viewing Change Rationally

Bazi emphasizes the triple interaction of natal chart, Dayun, and annual luck. Divorce reflects annual luck triggering Dayun conflicts, while starting anew is an autonomous choice based on personality.

Public figures choosing entertainment programs over serious occasions at turning points often have inherently active Shishang in their charts, or the new Dayun just enters a strong Shishang phase, naturally inclining them to restart in a light-hearted way.

• Personality backdrop: If the Day Master is strong in the natal chart and Shishang is prominent, the person naturally possesses quick-recovery humor and expressiveness. Swiftly diving back into work after divorce is an instinctive self-healing mechanism.
• Dayun's gift: Entering a Shishang Dayun can suddenly spark interest in cooking, art, or talk shows. The guest's cooking battle might be the first bloom of new Dayun energy.
• Power of choice: With the same Bazi, some choose to wallow, others to express. Shishang is a tool: used for creation, it generates wealth; used for indulgence, it drains the self. The public figure's positive example is commendable.
• Social support system: The cheers on social media represent Bijian (Peer) energy, which combined with Shishang accelerates emergence from shadow. This is also the group healing effect of Bijie generating Shishang in Bazi.

Points to Note

• Don't self-intimidate with Bazi: Seeing a Dayun clash with the spouse palace need not cause despair; it merely suggests the emotional relationship needs adjustment space, not inevitable divorce.
• During Dayun transition, stillness over action: Major decisions like divorce or resignation should ideally be re-evaluated three months after the new Dayun's energy settles, to avoid impulse during aura turbulence.
• Shishang expression needs boundaries: While Shishang 'draining elegance' is good for public figures, overexposing private life can trigger official troubles (public backlash); core privacy should be maintained.
• Use the Resource star for adjustment: If excessive Shishang causes emotional swings, stabilize the mind through reading, meditation, learning (Resource star) to avoid losing control on the show.
• Select auspicious days: If you know your Bazi likes and dislikes, choosing a day where Shishang generates Wealth or Wealth generates Officer for a comeback can boost audience goodwill and reduce unexpected friction.
• Don't rely solely on Peer support: SNS cheers are a temporary boost; ultimately, a strong Day Master—inner confidence rebuilt—is needed for long-term standing.
• Avoid labeling others with fate analysis: Don't make presumptuous Bazi judgments about public figures due to divorce; respect privacy and use Bazi only as a self-awareness tool.

The 'Love It!' guest's first appearance after divorce perfectly mirrors the ancient Bazi wisdom of Dayun transition and Shishang rebirth. A life turning point is not the end, but a signal of energy changing seasons.

Dayun shifts bring inevitable farewells, while Shishang expression offers a light path to rebuilding. Whether a public figure or not, understanding your own luck rhythm and harnessing the power of talent and entertainment can help you find new balance amidst change.